today was a o-k teacher's day...2j was fun, we sat and sang together. had band today. abit disappointed in myself.but i got into thai comp.*thankgod*
taken frm mel's blog..

~The Fundamentals of Love~ Think back to the day when you first laid eyes on her. You found yourself charmed by the way she talks, the way she dresses herself to show off her best features and the way she embraces life with her laughter. It seemed as if a mysterious "chemistry effect" has suddenly developed to draw you closer to her.

You two then began to meet regularly, and you discover more things that you admire about her. Her clever ideas, her healthy values and the way she stands up for you when others doubt you. You find yourself thinking of her not just as a normal friend, but a very good friend. It is often during this period that a boy and a gal will start thinking of bringing their friendship to another level. After all, the kind of wonderful experience you have between each other can only become even better if it develops into a romantic relationship. In other words, the feeling is really unique - no one else seems able to replace her in your heart.

So both of you agree to go steady and work even harder on the relationship. You "graduate" to become a couple, and are the envy of the sea of singles.

~When You Forget The Fundamentals~ However, at some point in your relationship, you forgot how it all began. You start to take your partner for granted. Why can't she laugh in a more ladylike manner? Why doesn't she dress herself more trendily? Why must she assert her views and point out your silly mistakes? Is she really the one for you? To be fair to yourself and to her, take some time to reflect on your "love memory". The "love memory' contains all the reasons that you fell in love with her right from Day One. It contains rarely accessed snippets of how your life has changed since meeting and loving her.

Pre-steady days, did you heap compliments on her for the brave way she spoke her mind on bullies and snobs? You probably did. Did you like her unusual fashion sense that makes her stand out from the crowd? Right-o. So why are you criticising or finding fault with her now that she is your girlfriend?

Because you have forgotten the fundamentals of love, like so many of us. You have forgotten the reasons you admired her during the friendship phase. Instead, once you went steady, you put your "love memory" in cold storage. As her boyfriend, you take up a new set of demands and expectations about her. These new ideas are not necessarily better; they could put your relationship at risk.

~The Secret Of Strong Relationships~
A healthy relationship, like learning to walk properly, follows a step-by-step development. You can't possibly become part of a couple if you aren't friends in the first place. Ok, I know some of us break the rule and plunge straight into whirlwind courtship, but how many of those couples can go the distance? Couplehood works well when there is something you like about her (and vice versa), and I'm not referring to merely the physical aspects. So whenever your relationship hits a rocky path, don't give up without checking on your "love memory". Rediscover the reasons why you fell in love with her, and watch your relationship flourish
with a newfound vigour.

"Follow the rule of love and enjoy it, as loving someone is a wonderful and sweet experience."

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What Guys Should Know About Girls
1. Don't ever lie to us; we always find out.
- kinda
2. We will always think we're fat. Most girls aren't as self-confident as guys! And we need to be complimented as often as possible, so humor us and tell us we aren't.
- isn't it ob.
3. Don't say you understand when both you and i know u don't.
- haha..
4. Girls are pretty; get over it.
-?
5. You don't have PMS; don't act like you know what it's like.
- ?
6. Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.
-yeah
7. Don't lead us on... Because we will talk about what a jerk you are, & it really doesn't give you a good reputation around the other girls you may be interested in!! Got it??
- haha..not me though(i think?)
8. "I love you" is a big step..... Don't say it if you don't mean it!! (Then again what does a guy understand about love)
-yea.
9. We don't like it when you act like Mr. Big.
-yea.
10. Be there for us when we need you. A smile, a call, a kiss, a hug, a visit, or just listening can go a long way when we're
upset or mad at you.
-yeapz =]
11. No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe.
-wad's a hoe?
12. It's good to be sensitive, sometimes.
-yea. but not oversensitive like me.
13. If you did something wrong or even if you didn't, apologize.
-haha...like me
14. Be spontaneous; dinner and a movie won't always cut it.
-?
15. We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it.
-haha
16. Public displays of affection....need we say more?
-hmm?
17. Fashion police do exist.
-wad's that
18. Don't ask us to give head; if you are nice you just MIGHT get it.
-wad's give head?
19. Talk about your feelings sometimes... it helpls A LOT!!
-yeah!
20. Hugs and kisses must be given at all times.
-all?! =p
21. We cry during sad movies. Don't make fun of us. Hug us.
-yeah
22. Don't make bets about us; we always find out.
-huh. for wad?
23. Cramps and PMS are a fact of life...GET OVER IT
-ehh..can anyone tell me when i haf pms?? i wanna how izzit like cos i nv seem to get them.
24. If you make a promise & then break it.. WE'RE GOING TO BE PISSED! Just expect it.
-yesh.
25. Don't compare us to another girl. We read minds.
-yeah
26. Most of the things you do reflects back on us in some way.. or effects us in some way.... Don't do anything stupid!
-haha~ like.. =p
27. We might not always think we are, but it's your job to remind us that we're beautiful at all times.
-yeayea
28. We have PMS every month.. Please just try to understand... We don't feel good, we're angry, and we're emotional.. DON'T FIGHT WITH US.. It's just something you don't want to do.
-?
29. We're really NOT expensive or "high maintenence", the smallest gesture is enough to make us happy.
-yeap =]
30. Most importantly: we are always right; so don't forget it
-hahaha........